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Archive for the ‘sensitive people’ Category

Are you too sensitive?

Wednesday, November 2nd, 2011

Has anyone ever accused you of being “too sensitive?”

Many people who experience anxiety also have a high degree of sensitivity. Coincidence? I don’t think so. Sensitive people tend to be more self reflective, and unfortunately, more self-critical. This critical inner voice and tendency toward inward focus can often contribute to anxiety problems.

But if you happen to be one of the “sensitive ones,” how can you turn down your obsessive inner dialogue?

Obsessively self-critical thinking is a habit. It’s a “thinking habit” that works in the same way as other, more conventional habits. You develop the behavior gradually over time (and often unknowingly). And you overcome this habit the same way – with time and persistence. In fact, the easiest way to overcome a habit like this is to refrain from dealing with it at all, and instead, develop a few new habits that can effectively block the old one.

The EasyCalm series is largely based on this concept of using new, more productive habits to replace old, unproductive habits, the kind that lead to anxiety and panic attacks.

There’s also a lot you can do on your own to use this method of overcoming anxiety and panic. The key is to begin “installing” new habits, especially “thinking habits,” that will more or less replace the old unproductive ones. And when I say “old, unproductive habits,” I’m primarily talking about three issues: a tendency to over-control situations, obsessive thinking, and excessive inward focus.

All these habits can be diminished or even eliminated by shaking up your routine, your day-to-day life, and establishing new habits that have nothing to do with the old ones, and are much less likely to “feed” the anxiety. You have to take a look at what you are doing, thinking, watching and reading in your day-to-day life; and then recognize that, whatever it is,  it’s not working for you. Seriously.

Anxiety problems are a clear indication that your life is out of balance; and often, one of the best ways to restore balance is to begin making changes (both big and small) in your everyday routine. Of course, it helps if you have a clear “map” to follow from where you are now to where you are going. Or perhaps I should say a clear GPS signal. =) That’s where EasyCalm comes in. It gives you the right focus, and keeps you on track as you begin the process of making changes in your life, and moving beyond anxiety.

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The Post-Anxiety Series: “Getting Unstuck”

Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011

getting-unstuck.jpg“Getting Unstuck” has been called the “post-anxiety series.” It’s about moving forward and creating a new self image, something that is critical after overcoming anxiety and panic attack issues.

But it’s actually about a lot more than getting on with your life after anxiety. The Getting Unstuck video coaching series is a blueprint for increasing self esteem, and re-defining who you are and what you are capable of (because we’re always capable of about 10x more than we realize!).

Since debuting last November, Getting Unstuck has won many die-hard fans, and helped many re-claim their life. Many of the most vocal supporters are people who had just come out of a traumatic time, like a divorce, job loss, physical illness, etc. And yes, quite a few have relied on this series to help put their lives back together after overcoming anxiety and panic attacks too, hence the nickname, “the post anxiety series.” =)

Through the end of February, both the “Getting Unstuck” series and our “Attitude is NOT Optional Series” (another favorite, especially for shy or “sensitive” people) are on sale. Get an instant 15% discount on either of these coaching programs (or both) when you order before March 1st. Just input the discount code W3760891 on the order page.

Check out both programs here: http://www.youniversellc.com/coaching-sessions.html

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For “Sensitive” People, Attitude is NOT Optional!

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

attitude-is-everything.jpgIn my experience, if you have dealt with anxiety problems in your life, there is a 90% chance that you are a “sensitive” person. Sensitivity is a double-edged sword: it is usually accompanied by high intelligence, creativity and the capacity for self reflection, and all of these qualities are great, of course. But sensitivity also has a downside — sensitive people tend to have more emotional issues and self esteem problems than their less sensitive friends or family members.

Because of this, it is really important that sensitive people learn to focus their attention, discipline their thinking and get an attiutude! Without this, the creativity and self reflection that sensitive people are known for can quickly turn to the “dark side” and cause them to obsess on unproductive thoughts and imagine worst-case scenarios. AND, they can find themselves trying to follow the lead of the less-sensitive people around them, instead of recognizing their own power (a disastrous mistake!).

So let me be very clear about this. Being sensitive is NOT a handicap or disadvantaged in ANY way! Sensitivity equals capability. The less sensitive a person is, the less capability they have (and very often, the less creativity they will have). And if you are a sensitive person who tends to demure to the less sensitive people around you, you’re making a huge mistake.

If any of this sounds familiar, and you recognize the need within yourself to buck up and get an attitude — to feel your own power — I highly recommend the “Attitude is NOT Optional!” coaching session available on our newest web site, www.Youniversellc.com . You’ll find the session here: http://www.youniversellc.com/coaching-sessions.html

You can also listen to a five-minute demo audio from this coaching session on the above page. And as you will see, I’m very passionate about this subject — the majority of my clients are sensitive people who have all the potential in the world, but are in serious need of an attitude to sustain them in life!

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